Just looked at my previous few entries and man, do I need to relax!

I think it may be my public positivity that makes this blog so negative. Every day I have to say, “I love this! It’s such fun!” Which is true and all, but not universally: sometimes I have down days, and I rarely talk about those except here.

Why? Normal people at normal jobs have bad days. Normal people in sex work have the days they “deserve”, or “should’ve expected”.

I don’t want this blog to turn into the sunshine-and-rainbows caricature of how I usually describe sex work and kink. But there’s joy here too.

My coworker has been nibbling on my neck all day, making me squirm, call her a bitch, and shove her off. Let it never be said that tease and denial is an exclusively male kink.

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