Folsom & In My Absence

October 9th,

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Photo by flickr user dantc, used under a Creative Commons license.

I’m taking a break while I figure out what new incarnation this blog will take. But in the meantime, here’s what’s been happening:

I was named one of the top 100 sex bloggers! (Full list from Between My Sheets below the jump.)

12 of NYC’s sexiest sex bloggers have a burlesque-themed calendar to support the Sex Worker Awareness Project. I am definitely going to buy a calendar and so should you! I meant to buy a day, I swear I did, but September is a bad month; we’ve all got our habits to support and mine is tuition.

While they were playing dress-up, I was in San Francisco for the Folsom Street Fair. Kink in Exile, who gets cuter every time I see her, played my host and tour guide for the weekend. KiE: I adore you, even if you have gone all California on me and drink organic milk.

On Saturday I experienced the Citadel for the first time. New York needs to take notes and have some hot public sex with its kink. I got to watch an occasional lover of mine with two of his own, and I don’t remember the last time I got that flushed and flustered just watching anything.

On Sunday I got pulled up on the Kink.com stage by Lochai while wearing cherry-print stockings. That was a long, busy day. I went fangirl on the woman behind fetishwear.net (oh, for stretchy, breathable, machine-washable sex wear!), and was too flustered to even introduce myself to Carol Queen, who liked my stockings.

That flight against the time difference on Monday always hurts, but I made it back in plenty of time for homework and class on Tuesday morning.

I’ve been too slammed between classes and work to entertain much guilt over my lack of blogging. I have a three-day sex party this weekend and I hope I remember how to do it. It’s been six months, almost. It’s like riding a … bike? Is that the noun I’m looking for?

The List:

1. Sinclair Sexsmith http://sugarbutch.net
2. Radical Vixen http://www.radicalvixen.com
3. Curvaceous Dee http://curvaceousdee.blogspot.com
4. Always Aroused Girl http://aagblog.com
5. Ellie Lumpesse www.lumpesse.com
6. Catalina http://catalinaloves.com
7. Selena Kitt http://selenakittyn.com
8-9. Wifey and Hubby http://wifeytalk.com
10. Roger http://dirtyboy2.blogspot.com
11. Essin’ Em http://essin-em.com
12. Amber Rhea http://www.beingamberrhea.com
13-14. Richard and Amy http://247richardandamy.com
15-16. MJ and MJ’s Slave http://www.aslavestruenature.blogspot.com
17. Thursday’s Child http://thursdayschildhasfartogo.blogspot.com
18. Narration by D http://narrationbyd.blogspot.com
19. Andrea Zanin http://www.sexgeek.wordpress.com
20. The Provocateur http://theprovocateur.wordpress.com
21. Violet Blue http://tinynibbles.com
22. Autumn http://dreamsofaneroticaqueen.sensualwriter.com
23. SSS http://sweatshopsissy.wordpress.com
24. Storm http://ambientstorm.blogspot.com
25. Sub lyn http://longdistancesub.blogspot.com
26. Tara Tainton http://www.taratainton.com/tarastrysts/index.html
27. Jake http://factsandfriction.blogspot.com
28. Cherry Bomb http://cherrybombnyc.blogspot.com
29. Lakey http://fairelaffaire.blogspot.com
30. Scarlet http://feministfucktoy.com
31. Glenpreece http://lastbreath.wordpress.com
32. Lolita Wolf http://www.leatheryenta.com
33. Vixen http://blue-eyedvixen.com
34. Tom Paine http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com
35. Tongue Tied Blue http://tonguetiedblue.blogspot.com
36. Maymay http://www.maybemaimed.com
37. Miss Bliss http://blog.blisswarrior.com
38. Mistress Maeve http://7d.blogs.com/mistress
39. Nadia http://www.kinkylibrarian.net
40. Luka http://barbedwireboudoir.blogspot.com
41-42. Odysseus and Penelope http://marriedexploits.blogspot.com
43. Eileen http://bloodylaughter.com
44. Calico https://dominatrixnextdoor.com/blog
45. Caroline Shepherd http://feministsexcarnival.blogspot.com
46. Kathleen http://polyspace.wordpress.com
47. Packing Vocals http://packingvocals.blogspot.com
48. Audacia Ray http://www.wakingvixen.com
49. Axe http://unspeakableaxe.com
50. Baccus http://www.erosblog.com
51. Chelsea Summers http://prettydumbthings.typepad.com/chelseagirl
52. Debauchette http://debauchette.wordpress.com
53. The Butterfly Temptress http://thebutterflytemptress.com
54. Dirty Little Girl http://dirtylittlemind.blogspot.com
55. Sexy Whispers http://sexywhispers.wordpress.com
56. Wendy Blackheart http://www.heartfullofblack.com
57-58. Padme and Anakin http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com
59-60. Him and Her http://sexcakes.blogspot.com
61. Slip of a Girl http://aslipofagirl.blogspot.com
62. Blowjob Babe http://strokesuckswallow.blogspot.com
63-64. Dirty Debbie and CJ http://dirtydebbie.blogspot.com
65. Scorpio http://adventuresofascorpio.blogspot.com
66. Charlotte http://charlottethorpe73.wordpress.com
67. Bitchy Jones http://bitchyjones.wordpress.com
68. Anastasisa http://www.chaosnoir.com/anastasia
69. Alice http://anonymous-alice.blogspot.com
70. Anita Wagner http://practicalpolyamory.blogspot.com
71. Jack http://writingdirty.com
72. Mistress Matisse http://mistressmatisse.blogspot.com
73. Mariella http://wannaplaymariella.blogspot.com
74. O http://eros-logos.blogspot.com
75. Shasta Gibson http://shastagibson.com
76. Gwen http://www.pop-shot.blogspot.com
77. fivestar http://www.iamfivestar.com
78. Lilly http://dangerouslilly.com
79. Penny http://birdsaresmart.blogspot.com
80. Figleaf http://www.realadultsex.com
81. Tony http://www.comstockfilms.com/blog/tony
82. Viviane http://www.thesexcarnival.com
83. Six http://sixelaborates.wordpress.com
84. Bob http://bobsbestboobs.com
85-99. Fiammetta, Jill, Robyn, Scarlot, Melissa, Kitten, Karly, Holly, Surgeon, Stacey, Tara, Jessica, Gina, Wendy, and Tori http://deepthroated.wordpress.com
100.

Why is #100 blank? Because I know there are dozens…hundreds…of other amazing sex bloggers out there, and I want everyone to be a part of this list. If you weren’t already include, please promote yourself and your blog with a comment below. You can also feel free to link to other people’s blogs in a comment. Anything goes! I hope you’ll copy/paste this list on your own blog, if you have one. You don’t have to link back here - just get the word out about these amazing bloggers. Or, create your own list! Again, I hope you check out the 2008 Sex Bloggers page, which goes into more detail about each amazing blogger above!

-Between My Sheets

Correction: When I linked Lochai, the new director of kink.com’s Hogtied, I meant to say kirinawa.com, not nawashibari.com.  The latter belongs to James Mogul, the director of kink.com’s Training of O.  An understandable confusion, but all fixed now.

6 Responses to “Folsom & In My Absence”

  1. 1 orion
    October 9th, at 10:55 am

    I have a three-day sex party this weekend and I hope I remember how to do it.

    some of us will be more than happy to help remind you. ;)

  2. 2 Dov
    October 9th, at 11:50 am

    Glad to see you back ;-)

  3. 3 Calico
    October 9th, at 12:43 pm

    @orion:

    some of us will be more than happy to help remind you. ;)

    I am holding you to that!

  4. 4 SW
    October 12th, at 10:26 am

    It’s been only 4.5 months, IIRC.

  5. 5 Lochai
    October 13th, at 5:18 pm

    Hey hon…

    You are also in the video of the event on the Behind Kink website, check it out! http://news.behindkink.com/blog/default/?smm=y&permalink=World-Famous-Folsom-Street-Fair-Celebrates-25-Years

  6. 6 Calico
    October 16th, at 11:22 am

    Thanks for linking me! I will be sure to share :)

    Also, I just got a call from the nice folks at your workplace. I may be stopping by your office, so to speak, next month. Hope it’s not too cold mid-November.

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