When I think about June I can’t decide whether to be ecstatic or stressed.
Every month I work about 20 shifts at the Hidden Chamber, or an average of five per week. This seems to hold true no matter how much I travel.
This month I’ll also take four out-of-state trips — and leaving the state […]
Enough! I’ve had it! Too much deep thought. This week I am going to read about chess and engineering and NOT, for the love of God, anything about feminism or sex work.
Last week I made it all the way through Naomi Wolf’s The Beauty Myth — the most approachable-looking book from my latest batch […]
Here’s to prodommes, and their lack of Real And True Dominance.
Maymay got me thinking when I revisited this post of his. You’ve all heard it before: dommes are the real submissives because they do it for money. Dommes are just service tops. Dommes are just whores (well, yes, thanks, I am). […]
To the dungeon today, one girl brought the four three-week-old kittens she’s fostering. You haven’t lived until you’ve seen pro-dommes in full regalia bottlefeeding kittens.
One, all black, had six toes. All were so small they fit in the palm of my hand.
See how heartrendingly adorable?
I have a love-hate relationship with needles. I always ask to watch people play with them, and then I get queasy and can’t stick around. My porn (that I use, not that I make!) sometimes looks like bmezine.com, but I have only recently been able to give blood with equanimity. Not that […]
The first of my books are beginning to arrive! I started with one called Sex Work: Writings By Women In The Sex Industry.”
I read it first (even though I had pledged to read something about feminism, not sex work, for once), and in a hurry, between clients at work. After all, one of […]
Squirting was not a happy discovery for me.
Even the name sucks. “Female ejaculation” is no better: it’s clinical and derivative (we don’t say male ejaculation, do we?). Whoever named it didn’t have a poetic bone in their body.
I can remember exactly when it happened, too. I was 20, and I had just dyed […]
Today, I’m too sleepy to write thoughtful material. I’m halfway through a weekend with the most terrifying of companions: my mother.
But first, here are the unexpected places my baby blog has been this week:
Maymay, of Maybe Maimed But Never Harmed, wrote flattering things about me. Thanks, May!
Viviane, of Viviane’s Sex Carnival, also graciously […]
Today I want to link to Annie Sprinkle’s The 40 Reasons Why Whores Are My Heroes.
How is this relevant to anything I do? you might ask. You’re not a whore — you’re a dominatrix. You whip people and make them say thank you while they kiss your boots. You are never required […]
Blog pick of the day: Bitchy Jones’s Diary. She is a dominant woman — avocational — who likes submissive men. She isn’t terribly kind to my ilk, but it’s refreshing.
I just found her blog and read the first three entries (starting with Here Kitty, Kitty) and it is all so brilliant and spot-on […]
