May 14th,
I almost resolved for New Year’s to sort out my sexual issues, but I’d have nothing to blog about.
Confession time (not that this isn’t always confessional time): what am I preoccupied with these days? The three-month’s-old scars on my thighs. I’m supposed to be talking about the lighthearted tribulations of sex work and […]
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October 16th, 2007
I’ve put off the Folsom Street Fair post for far too long!
I arrived early with a crew from San Jose, by way of a ritzy leather-titleholder brunch at drag queen Donna Saschet’s.
The food was fantastic and the eye candy better, but I knew no one. I felt acutely that I had two ovaries too […]
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June 16th, 2007
This post is inspired by Sex Geek’s 10 realistic rules for good non-monogamous relationships. It makes me tingly all over.
(And I wonder why I’m blogging instead of having sex right now.)
I went to TES on Wednesday night, for an otherwise unexciting Novice Group about communication. In the post-class discussion a girl asked about emotions when […]
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May 8th, 2007
Today I want to link to Annie Sprinkle’s The 40 Reasons Why Whores Are My Heroes.
How is this relevant to anything I do? you might ask. You’re not a whore — you’re a dominatrix. You whip people and make them say thank you while they kiss your boots. You are never required […]
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