May 14th,
I’ve been (re)reviewed at Jane’s Guide! They say I’m “engaging, interesting, fun - heck, she’s even grammatically correct… a rare gem of a sex blogger”. I can imagine no higher praise.
Also, a few changes around here. I checked my feed reader (what I read on a daily basis) against my blogroll (what I pimp to […]
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March 28th,
Lovers of smart sex-work talk should check out Kitty, a formerly-SF-now-UK sex worker. Her baby blog PurrVersatility has two fabulous posts recently, one on forced feminization and one on threesomes. Too many people bog down in jokes and ostentatiously sexy bits; I’m liking her clear, light and incisive prose. Add her to […]
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March 14th,
I’m sad Spitzer resigned so fast! It took all the fun out of my fantasy.
I’d begun to collect the various arguments I’ve dispensed across the Internet the past couple of days, when I realized that Glenn Greenwald had done it for me, without all the cursing and impotent frustration.
If you read one thing on […]
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February 13th,
Bo of Bleufetish Video kindly pointed out to me that my blog (along with Adele Haze and Nikki Flynn) is mentioned in the February issue of AVN Online magazine.
… I think something … significant is going on. We have porn performers using blogs as means of self-promotion. They are making themselves characters and, maybe, eventually, […]
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February 10th,
Oh, ambivalence. Creature of my fondest fantasies. A friend of mine once used the word “bittersweet”; she referred not to the blending of the flavors, she said, but to the tension held between them.
Debauchette and Marcelle Manhattan, easily two of the best writers on my blogroll, take on the same topic this week. Debauchette: […]
Posted in links, porn, blogging, young and confused, feminism, pro domination, sex work, shame, consent, sexual assault, rape | 18 Comments »
February 4th,
Cue the lust of a thousand geeks:
[Edit: fixed so it actually links. Sorry guys!]
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November 28th, 2007
Today I got into the pictures I did for Kink.com in September. As I have no pay site, I’m going to post a bunch of my favorites for free, because I love you! I’m not an affiliate; I don’t get any more money. But you’re welcome to talk me up on their […]
Posted in links, pictures, switching, modeling, porn, bondage, travel, kink dot com, real live porn stars, submission (or the lack thereof), plastic wrap, masochism, pain, sex work, shameless self-promotion, costume | 17 Comments »
November 14th, 2007
Ooh, today I’m a little bit in love with Figleaf.
I hopped a link, as I am wont to do, and loved his smarts and attitude. But the pictures are worth a look, too. I love the suit; the set isn’t hurt by anonymity, maybe even helped.
For someone who makes porn, I too rarely […]
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October 16th, 2007
I’ve put off the Folsom Street Fair post for far too long!
I arrived early with a crew from San Jose, by way of a ritzy leather-titleholder brunch at drag queen Donna Saschet’s.
The food was fantastic and the eye candy better, but I knew no one. I felt acutely that I had two ovaries too […]
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May 20th, 2007
I have a love-hate relationship with needles. I always ask to watch people play with them, and then I get queasy and can’t stick around. My porn (that I use, not that I make!) sometimes looks like bmezine.com, but I have only recently been able to give blood with equanimity. Not that […]
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