After all the silence here, the curtain is up! I am delighted to announce that starting this week, I will be taking sessions at Mistress Avalon’s L’Oeil Cache.
In other exciting news: I’m a year older, my arnica experiment is in full swing, and I am considering whether I should sew another dress (or rather, […]
Oh God, I seem to have committed myself to talk at TES tomorrow night. I’m spotting for a cancelled presenter.
It’s their Switchable group, so I’m talking about switching beyond binaries: submissive sadists, dominant bottoms, that sort of thing. I’ll also be talking about hot and unconventional scenes you can play out, and the challenges of […]
I almost resolved for New Year’s to sort out my sexual issues, but I’d have nothing to blog about.
Confession time (not that this isn’t always confessional time): what am I preoccupied with these days? The three-month’s-old scars on my thighs. I’m supposed to be talking about the lighthearted tribulations of sex work and […]
Back posts continued…
One of my coworkers told a story about her fiancee. All her boyfriends, she said, started skeptical about dominant women, but ended up playing with her sooner or later. And as soon as they tried it, they enjoyed it. “If it sucked, they wouldn’t do it!” she concluded, hands […]
I had hoped to make it to the MaxFisch meetup at Paddles last night, but at the last minute veered off to a post-HC reunion of sorts. God, it was good to see those girls! I drank too much, smoked too many cigarettes, and had to take four trains to get home at […]
Miss Victoria X, who I have not yet had the pleasure of meeting, posted a pretty comprehensive rundown of relevant case law. There’s also some vigorous case law research happening in the comments to my last post.
Playing armchair lawyer is all well and good, but in my understanding, it’s a moot point. The […]
Police raided the Hidden Chamber on Thursday night and arrested all six women there on charges of prostitution. Everyone is out of jail and safe.
I was not there. In fact, I showed up all unwitting the next morning to find the place empty and things strewn about, one lonely pair of red shoes […]
After TES last night (excellent class by the way), I buttoned my cardigan all the way up and beat a hasty retreat. It was Awkward Encounters, Inc. in there. When I tell kinky men I’m a pro-domme, their reaction’s often “Lost another one!”. Or “Of course you are, the good ones are […]
Enough of this angelic bullshit!
Submissive clients: What’s with the eating pussy?
Look, I like a side of rough sex with my domination as much as the next girl, but in commercial-land that’s straight up illegal. I’m not trying to perpetuate an unhealthy paradigm where dominant women are too good to be touched and they never […]
Lovers of smart sex-work talk should check out Kitty, a formerly-SF-now-UK sex worker. Her baby blog PurrVersatility has two fabulous posts recently, one on forced feminization and one on threesomes. Too many people bog down in jokes and ostentatiously sexy bits; I’m liking her clear, light and incisive prose. Add her to […]
