August 16th, 2007
Despite frequent requests, I’ve never taken a wrestling session at work.
Not that it is beneath me as a “pro-domme” — please, I do peanut butter — but I am a little girl who knows nothing about wrestling. Also, how could I win against someone twice my size? I lose money for declining these […]
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August 5th, 2007
Summer is slow for my industry. “Five Things I Hate About Being A Dominatrix In The Summer” really says it all. We’ve thoroughly tested the iced-coffee theory in this heat; maybe tomorrow we’ll lay off playing with my webcam and obtain asparagus out of sheer boredom.
These may be the first photographic evidence […]
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July 20th, 2007
We’re all guilty of alcohol abuse.
I tend toward baby wipes, since isopropyl dries my skin, but no matter. Anytime a session ends, we start to wash: the rooms of course, but ourselves, too.
Don’t get that sin on you, I like to joke. It stains, you know.
Sometimes I silently watch a client scrubbing his […]
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July 18th, 2007
You don’t realize that you’re kinky. You just realize that your boyfriends think you’re weird.
You start to seek out other weird people. It seems too lonely an existence to be weird by yourself. After all, you’re 18 and angsty.
At some point people offer you a role in their fantasies, and you find […]
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June 28th, 2007
Yesterday a client asked me to smother him with peanut butter.
This was bewildering, but it was not objectionable, either. I gamely put on a pair of gloves, smeared peanut butter on my palms, and clamped them over his mouth.
He squirmed a lot and carried on some vague, muffled roleplay about punishment and begging. […]
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June 13th, 2007
You read it right: Coworkers I’d Like to Fuck.
God I hope they never read this.
I have the best coworkers in the world. I appreciate them doubly because it’s so rare, in sex work, to have coworkers in an environment that encourages comraderie and not competition. It’s impossible not to enjoy them, these confident, intelligent, self-actualized […]
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June 12th, 2007
Just looked at my previous few entries and man, do I need to relax!
I think it may be my public positivity that makes this blog so negative. Every day I have to say, “I love this! It’s such fun!” Which is true and all, but not universally: sometimes I have down days, […]
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June 8th, 2007
So my top for the weekend is off watching Hostel 2, God save me, and I am camping out and recovering here at home base. Never was much for horror movies.
This is shaping up to be a thinky sort of night, and I am sure tomorrow will be no different.
I’m loud and clear about sexual […]
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May 24th, 2007
Here’s to prodommes, and their lack of Real And True Dominance.
Maymay got me thinking when I revisited this post of his. You’ve all heard it before: dommes are the real submissives because they do it for money. Dommes are just service tops. Dommes are just whores (well, yes, thanks, I am). […]
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May 17th, 2007
The first of my books are beginning to arrive! I started with one called Sex Work: Writings By Women In The Sex Industry.”
I read it first (even though I had pledged to read something about feminism, not sex work, for once), and in a hurry, between clients at work. After all, one of […]
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